How to Know You Have A Spiritual Spouse: 11 Secret Signs of Spirit Wives and Husbands
By: Oudney Patsika | Focus: Dream Warfare, Marital Deliverance & Spiritual Healing
The Hidden Enemy Unmasked: Before getting to know how to be delivered from or get rid of spirit wives and husbands, you first have to know more about these spirits and understand why they are here in the first place. When you know what you are up against, it becomes significantly easier to fight back and, of course, win the battle.
At times, the people involved in such spiritual sexual encounters and relationships are not even aware they have a spiritual spouse, an entity who is typically deeply envious and spoils things for the actual human spouse. A spiritual husband or wife is a spirit of Satan—a demon. These spouses are not natural but spiritual, though at certain levels they can manifest physically. You cannot see them with natural eyes, but you can see them spiritually in dreams, visions, and trances.
Remember that knowledge is power. The secret key to overcoming your enemy is knowing your enemy and its deceptive devices. This extensive guide will throw light on the struggle behind the scenes, unveil the harm these sex demons of the night bring to their victims, indicate the 11 signs of their presence, and show you how to get total deliverance.
I. The Hijacking of Intimacy and Affection
These demonic entities specifically target your sexual purity and your affection for your earthly spouse, replacing it with unnatural lust.
1. Sex in Dreams
Every person having sex in dreams has a spiritual husband or wife. If in the past you had sex in dreams and you were not delivered, you are still bound. It is Satanic to have sex in dreams—these are demons violating you. You have no power of your own to deny them; whether you like it or not, those demons will have sex with you until the day you are delivered.
2. Deprives the Married of Sex
Spiritual husbands and wives deprive the married of physical intimacy. The demons do everything they can to deny married sex. This is why you hear of wives telling their husbands to pay for sex, spouses bringing endless excuses to deprive intimacy, and married couples sleeping in different beds. It is a major cause of separation and divorce.
3. Steals Affection for Your Spouse
For the married, there will be no affection or attraction for your spouse. Instead, the demon gives you attraction for other men or women, leading to sexual immorality. For the unmarried, you hear women say things like, "men are dogs" or "I cannot be married." That is a spiritual husband speaking, ensuring no earthly man will marry her while giving her away to many men.
4. Leads You to Sexual Immorality
They take away the love for your spouse and exchange it for extreme lust. They may give you pornography, masturbation (which is sex with demons), homosexuality, and prostitution. Have you noticed married women who dress like "sacks of potatoes" in the marital bed but go out looking like "goddesses"? They are under the control of a spiritual husband, dressing to attract outside men while denying their actual husbands.
II. Hatred, Sabotage, and Delayed Marriage
Spiritual spouses are fiercely jealous. They will forcefully block earthly marriages and instill deep-rooted hatred between couples.
5. Gives You Hate for Your Husband or Wife
A spiritual husband in a wife hates the earthly husband. This is the reason women suddenly hate their husbands and men do not understand why. To the unmarried, it gives hatred for the opposite sex, especially towards the person they are meant to marry. Apart from hatred, it brings sudden, explosive anger and deep unforgiveness.
6. Denies You Marriage
Many women are unmarried because they are married to spiritual husbands (and vice-versa). When a suitor comes, the spiritual spouse torments that man physically or in dreams until he flees. If you are legally married but face constant separation, fights, and zero affection, the spirit is actively denying you the experience of marriage. They give victims pride and stubbornness, telling them their earthly spouses do not deserve them.
III. Barrenness, Disease & Identity Reversal
These demons attack the physical body, altering destinies, bringing sickness, and fundamentally changing a person's God-given identity.
7. Barrenness and Low Sperm Count
They cause barrenness by blocking tubes, causing miscarriages, and manifesting as fibroids or cancer. They defile the womb to ensure you cannot have a child. For men, they cause low or zero sperm count. This is why some women dream of giving birth and nursing babies, but in reality, they remain barren—they are reproducing in the spirit realm.
8. Gives Diseases and Sicknesses
A spiritual husband or wife comes with bizarre diseases and sicknesses. They may physically deform you or cause chronic ailments as a way to chain you completely to themselves.
9. Makes a Woman a Man and a Man a Woman
God created women to be gentle, caring helpers, and men to lead. Satan exchanges these roles. A woman with a spiritual husband becomes a quarrelsome fighter who values her career, money, and "equality" (feminism) over her husband and children. In the home, she becomes the "man." Consequently, you find husbands doing all the washing, cooking, and cleaning, effectively turned into "wives" by the demonic oppression on their actual wives. Many men are suffering silently indoors.
IV. Rebellion & Hatred of the Gospel
The ultimate goal of the spiritual spouse is to drag its victim to hell by causing them to rebel against authority and hate true spiritual power.
10. Wives Disrespect & Won't Submit
Because she has another husband spiritually, she will disrespect her earthly one. Women with spiritual husbands are authoritative, dictatorial, and controlling. They lie, slander, abuse, and actively uncover the nakedness of their marriage by gossiping about their husbands to outsiders.
11. Hating the Power of the Gospel
Spiritual husbands and wives absolutely hate the power of Jesus Christ. People infected by them will persecute true servants of God who operate in miracles, signs, and deliverance. Satan has no problem with powerless preaching, but he violently fights ministries that cast out demons. The spiritual spouse often works hand-in-hand with the spirit of Jezebel.
It Is Time To Accept Reality and Be Free
Accepting Your Deliverance
Jesus cannot deliver you if you do not accept your situation. A doctor cannot treat you if you deny being sick. Many people claim they are "free because of the cross" while actively living in Egyptian bondage. Spiritual spouses, after destroying everything, will kill you and take you to hell. You must repent of your sins and your forefathers' sins, and ask Jesus Christ to deliver you.
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