6 Undeniable Signs You Have a Spiritual Spouse: How Dream Encounters Are Destroying Your Marriage
By: Oudney Patsika | Focus: Dream Interpretation, Deliverance & Relationships
The Hidden Enemy in Your Sleep: Spiritual wives and husbands are a major belief in African culture and Christianity. But what exactly are spiritual spouses? According to deep spiritual sources, these spiritual spouses cannot be seen physically but actively appear and operate in dreams and visions.
These supernatural spouses can attach themselves to anyone, whether married or unmarried. Most victims hardly ever know that their physical struggles are rooted in this unseen bondage. As your trusted guide in spiritual warfare, we have compiled the sure signs that you may be battling a spiritual spouse.
I. The Midnight Encounters & Lost Intimacy
The most prominent sign of a spiritual spouse manifests when your physical intimacy is hijacked and replaced with nocturnal encounters.
1. You Frequently Have Dreams Of Having Sex
You are past the age of wet dreams as a man, and if you are a lady, you have dreams of having sexual intercourse all the time. The sensations you feel are on the borderline of reality, and if this is persistent, it heavily points to you having a spiritual spouse actively engaging with you in the spirit realm.
2. You Are Married but Deny Your Spouse Sex
This happens in most marriages afflicted by this spirit. Your partner, whom you swore to bonk till death do you part, suddenly loses interest in you—or you lose interest in them. You try your best, go the extra mile, but no matter what you do, sex comes once a year like Christmas. This points to serious spiritual issues, as these spiritual spouses are fiercely jealous and will do their absolute best to break your physical marriage.
II. Emotional Sabotage & Unexplained Hatred
Spiritual spouses manipulate your emotions, turning love into bitter, unexplained hatred to force a separation between you and your God-ordained partner.
3. You Hate Your Other Half For No Reason
This is a serious one. Most times you just hate your partner for no reason; you literally can’t explain why you hate them. If you are unmarried and in a relationship, you just find yourself constantly angry and actively looking for ways to piss your partner off. The spirit is using you to drive them away.
4. You Fail To Respect Your Spouse Or Submit
This goes either way. A woman may fail to submit to her husband, disrespecting his authority and challenging him at every chance she gets. The common notion has always been that some women are more dominant than others, but look beneath the surface—the spiritual spouse wants you divorced. Conversely, most men think it’s macho to come home late, to binge, and generally treat their wives like crap. That too could be the spiritual wife wanting you all to herself at the expense of your marriage.
III. Unnatural Urges & Stagnation
When a spiritual spouse is present, your progress halts, and your natural desires are corrupted into insatiable perversions.
5. Marriage Just Seems To Be Out Of Your Reach
You try so hard, you are ready to settle down, but you always find yourself making excuses that "better people will come along." Before you know it, you are old and your marriage prospects are non-existent. You could be lucky to find love, but your relationships never last. You always find yourself in heartbreaks and never experience a happy ending.
6. Your Sexual Appetite is Insatiable
Sex is the best thing that happened to humankind, however, everything has a limit. You are always thirsty, and no matter if you get it all day, it’s never enough—that’s a serious problem. In some cases, it can be as bad as having more than one girlfriend or boyfriend at a time to satisfy the urge, which strongly points to something spiritual feeding off your lust.
It Is Not The End Of The World
The Condition Can Be Reversed
The list above is not exhaustive, and there are some signs we may have missed. However, should you find out you have a spiritual spouse, it’s not the end of the world. The condition can be fully reversed depending on your beliefs. A genuine spiritual authority, Sangoma, or Pastor can help you break these bonds.
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